People with social anxiety disorder or social phobia can feel alone even in the most lovely places.
Source: Mills Baker, CC BY 2.0, flickr
What is Social Anxiety Disorder?
Social phobia and social anxiety disorder are basically the same condition with different names. They fall under the heading of mental health problems. While extremely life altering and frustrating at times, this disorder is relatively curable.
The identifying components of this type of disorder is the paralyzing fear and/or avoidance that usually characterize episodes. People with social phobias often fail to enjoy a normal lifestyle because they spend their time avoiding situations that frighten and might embarrass them.
While these anxiety disorders are not as severe as something like schizophrenia or other more crippling mental disorders, SAD or social phobia disorder can be debilitating for its suffers simply because it takes away being able to interact freely in life situations. In short, it limits one’s possibilities.
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What Causes Social Anxiety Disorders?
Social phobias have many different faces. Someone with stage fright for instance is termed to have a social anxiety disorder or social phobia.
Someone who has a fear of speaking in front of people they don’t know has the same disorder.
Yet someone who has a fear of using a public bathroom or eating in a restaurant is experiencing the same thing only with a specific set of circumstances.
Social phobias arise sometimes from an incident that went badly in a person’s past. For instance, this author has a terrible performance anxiety reaction with playing the piano in front of people–whether it’s people I don’t know or people near and dear to me. The only person I can comfortably play in front of is my husband Bob.
It also turns out this author had the same reaction when trying to read one of her Hubpages articles in front of a group of authors a year ago. I had never experienced this kind of anxiety reaction before in my life but do tend to get a little frightened when I have to stand up and speak in front of people. This time it was just an over-the-top kind of experience.
In my case, I think these reactions have their origins back in my recital days as a child. My mother is a very accomplished musician and music teacher and I was expected to always do well. I usually did but the anxiety that it created is still something I deal with and work to overcome.
These examples show how one type of anxiety can spill over into another realm entirely–(which actually was extremely disappointing since it made me aware that I had another thing I needed to work on.) But in thinking about it thoroughly, it does boil down to the same anxiety situation–performing in front of other people.
In other people’s cases, anxiety disorders develop for whatever reasons. The anxiety is actually a chemical reaction that sets off adrenalin in the body. It’s much like a fight or flight response in nature. Once someone has a particularly volatile anxiety reaction, it can develop into a trigger that recurs over and over in similar situations if not treated.
Social phobias can be as varied as fear of flying, fear of public speaking, going to the bathroom in public restrooms, eating in a restaurant, performing in front of an audience, going to parties, meeting new people, joining activities or just standing up in a group and introducing yourself.
Causes and Risk Factors
Family history–genetic versus behaviors that are learned
Gender–females are more likely than males to have this disorder
Environment–developing this as a “coping” mechanism to parenting styles
Personality–people who are inherently shy or withdrawn are at higher risk
Increased socialization demands–new job requirements to make a speech for instance
Physical conditions–anything that makes someone stand out can trigger anxiety
Chemical reactions in the brain–overactive parts of the brain can cause reactions
Blasts from the past–prior bad experiences leave an imprint and can spark fear
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What are the Symptoms of Social Phobia?
Everyone reacts differently but these are some of the most common symptoms.
Trembling–hands or body
Sweating, even excessive
Flushing or blushing
Cold and clammy skin
Voice that is shaky or trembling
Mental health symptoms
Fear of interacting with people you don’t know
Avoidance of any type of situation in which you might be judged or evaluated
Rumination about humiliating yourself or being embarrassed
Loss of sleep and appetite thinking about an upcoming event
Not going to activities such as school, work or parties so you can avoid situations
Constant worry about how you appear to others in certain situations
Guilt over how anxious you appear or might appear and being ridiculed
Avoiding eye contact
Trouble talking or communicating
Avoiding the limelight and playing it safe
What if Social Anxiety Disorder isn’t Treated?
As in most mental health problems, treatment is the best way to overcome the disorder and get back to good mental health. However, sometimes that’s easier said than done.
Repercussions of untreated social anxiety disorder/social phobia:
Excessive drinking or substance abuse–especially prevalent in men
Suicide or suicidal gestures
Low self esteem
Lack of assertiveness
Impaired social skills
Isolation and repeatedly failed or poor relationships
Low academic achievement or poor work performance
Hypersensitivity to criticism
Hopelessness and helplessness
How Do You Treat Social Anxiety Disorder?
First, you have to admit that Houston, we have a problem. Then you have to allow yourself the luxury of trying to fix it one baby step at a time. Fixing a mental health problem is not a one dose fix. Usually it is a cumulative effort over time of learning to cope better.
Often one of the best sources for overcoming anxiety disorders. Figuring out what triggers are present is the most important thing and then how to block them from controlling your life. This author has found that EMDR therapy is a wonderful way to take a negative memory and turn it into one with a more positive outcome. Cognitive behavioral therapy is said to accomplish much the same thing.
Some people find that antidepressants or anxiolytics are effective in treating this disorder. The important thing to remember is that the effect is only temporary–as long as you take the medication, you are “cured.” This author happened to be on Cymbalta, an antidepressant for a short period of time to treat a severe muscle problem. I did notice that I no longer had anxiety over performance issues and while it was a pleasant side benefit, I didn’t like the way the medication made me feel. Some antidepressants also have powerful side effects such as suicidality, extreme weight changes, etc. It is important to know that they may make the symptoms better but they do not erase the problem.
Beta blockers are also helpful treatments for slowing heart rates and blocking some of the physical reactions that occur with anxiety.
Anti-anxiety medications can help in the short-term but again they do not cure the problem.
Vitamin B, valerian (similar to an anti-anxiety drug only an herb), folic acid, and kava are said to be beneficial via the herbal or natural route.
One of the best ways to treat social anxiety disorders is to join a support group or try taking steps on your own to mitigate the effects of the condition on your life. Something as simple as playing the piano in my case in front of a neighbor is just a small baby step along the journey. The next time maybe playing in front of 4 family members will reinforce that nothing “bad” happened. Finally, after incrementally increasing my comfort zone, playing with a group of other musicians my own age might be the final step to healing. The sooner you get help or seek help the richer your life will be.
Healing and Prevention
Once you start your healing process, don’t give up on it. Maintain a healthy lifestyle and you will find that episodes have less impact on you.
Tips on Staying in the Moment
Don’t smoke–it increases your heart rate and acts as a stimulant–which you do not need
Avoid drinking too much caffeine for the same reason
Alcohol will not help ease the discomfort–avoid drinking for “courage”
Get enough sleep–being sleep deprived can aggravate anxiety of any kind
Keep to a healthy diet and get plenty of exercise–excellent curative properties
Learn self talk–decide what you will let yourself believe about yourself and what not
Get your life organized–don’t overdo and don’t overextend
Role play–ask yourself what is the worst case scenario but also the best case scenario
Avoid being a palm reader or fortune teller–don’t assume you know what will happen
Try to put the past on the shelf–think of today and not yesterday–go from here
Live in the now and create new positive experiences every day to outweigh the bad
My Personal Checklist for Growth
STEPS TO NO ANXIETY
PLAYING THE PIANO
READING AN ARTICLE
Play for Bob
Read to Bob
Play for son Pat and Bob
Read to Bob and son Pat
Play for close friend Pam
Read to close friend Pam
Play for family get-together
Read at a family get-together
Play at someone’s party
Read at someone’s party
With anxiety disorders, it’s all about baby steps
Curing Social Anxiety Disorder
It’s interesting to this author that SAD can be very selective in terms of what triggers anxiety. While parties, going out and meeting new people, or defending an issue don’t trigger any anxious symptoms for me, playing the piano or as I surprisingly learned, reading one of my Hubpages articles aloud triggered major physical symptoms for me.
Flushing and shaking were the most embarrassing symptoms for me personally as well as the shaky voice. When I reached for my coffee cup, I almost spilled it all over myself because I was so overcome with fear and panic–physical manifestation equaled shaking.
I got through it but at much personal expense of peace of mind. I vowed never to go back. However, that really doesn’t solve the problem, does it?
The above self-imposed baby step program is my way of dealing with my own quirks of social anxiety disorder. It’s important to note that you should achieve one of the steps completely before moving on. Healing is the goal and there should be no imagined or real time limit.
This author will probably attack one scenario at a time rather than attempting to cure both problems at the same time. Though similar, it’s important to try to stop one trigger before moving on to the next one. I offer this as an illustration of how people who interact normally in life can have weak areas that seem nonsensical to the outside observer. People who know me would never dream that I had such intense anxiety reactions to these two situations.
Whether the disorder is a pervading disorder (meaning it occurs in many different situations across the board) or a selective one such as mine, there is hope for curing it or at least bringing the anxiety to a tolerable level. Everyone gets nervous when they have to speak in front of others or perform for an audience. However, it’s the degree of anxiety that needs to be adjusted for people suffering from social phobias.
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